There is much confusion over this term. It has the connotation that Spirit has been offended. This is somehow then followed by either anger or punishment or both. However, this is merely a reflection of our own limited consciousness. We ourselves can get angry, feel offended, or want to lash out at someone, and so assume Spirit is the same. Nothing can be further from the truth. What, then, is meant by “sin”? Glad you asked…
Humor opens the heart
A minister was standing outside the Church after a Sunday Service. He was shaking hands and speaking briefly with each parishioner. One lady, however, grabbed his hand and would not let go. She went on and on about all her troubles. After a while he interrupted and said, “Ma’am. You must understand: I am in sales, not in management!”
How to make New Year's resolutions that will stick
It’s the time for New Year’s Resolutions. You know, those promises we make ourselves that too often don’t make it till Groundhog Day (for those of you unaware of that holiday, it’s February 2nd. Happy Groundhog day in advance, in case I forget to mention it later. :-)) The trouble with failed promises, however, is most often not our lack of will; it is that we have a tendency to pick unrealistic goals.
The true spirit of Christmas
A meditation practice may not be what you think
Many people meditate, try to meditate, or feel guilty for no longer meditating. I have been a meditator for many decades and a meditation teacher for about 30 years. I have learned a few things that you may find helpful if any of those descriptions applies to you.
1. Meditation is a method and practice, not a hard and fast goal….
I want the world my way!
A friend shared that she had a willful six-year-old son. He almost always wanted things exactly his way. One morning he was quite anxious for the day to get started, but when he awoke he realized it was still the middle of the night. Not to let such a small impediment stop him, he went to the top of the stairs and yelled for the whole world to hear, “I want it to be day!!” Suffice it to say, the rotation of the earth did not accelerate to meet his demand.
A fond farewell to events
Thousands of speakers and events have been hosted by East West over the past 50+ years. For most of that time, we were one of the few places to meet and hear remarkable spiritual and consciousness leaders. But as the world changes, so must we. Online attendance to our events has dropped substantially. The time has come for us to accept that events are no longer a useful part of our service to you. Much of what was once hard to find is now wonderfully easy to find online; the variety and choices are immense…
What are we protecting?
Each of us protects little aspects of ourselves because of our false belief that it is our little personality that needs protection. I often notice that even amongst deep devotees—those who have truly committed their lives to change and growth—there is an overwhelming desire to shrink and defend rather than to let go and grow. When a flaw is pointed out the immediate natural response is, “That’s not me!” One often becomes annoyed or withdrawn.
Humility is self-honesty
It has often been said that humility is a mark of spirituality, and this is so. But “humility” needs to be well understood, I think, to really grasp what that means. Interestingly, Yogananda defined “humility” as “self-honesty.” If we have any conscious awareness, we want to be better than we are. I am sure that is true for everyone reading this. But in our quest, it is quite natural to envision ourselves as perhaps better than we are in fact—or worse!
Serving in freedom
I was doing my stress management training program in Colorado for a government agency. A woman came up to me at the end, and shared that one of her stressors was not enough time to get her work done. Hardly unique, but I felt to probe a bit for more details. She was a manager there and found she spent so much time helping staff she fell behind on her own work. My first impression was how sweet she must be. But, as sometimes happens for me, a few alarm bells went off and an intuition came. Something seemed “off.”…
How to draw true guidance
We all want to do what’s right. We all (hopefully!) accept that our own sight is limited by our past experiences and our current fears and desires – the twins that cloud judgment and intuition. I have personally made it a life-long practice to do my best to constantly ask for guidance. There are many images of Spirit, and each speaks to us individually, but the process is the same…
How to relate to the news
Is there a hell?
Western religion has a notion of hell. I believe it is broadly misunderstood, though – like most broadly accepted ideas – there is a grain of truth in it. I’d like to explore the notion this week and uncover what is actually true. We unfortunately tend to create our own hells. That is NOT to say that every strongly unpleasant thing that happens to us is some disastrous error on our part…
We are who we are
What is true renunciation?
Renunciation is a word that tends to leave people feeling that denial is involved. That, of course, is somewhat unattractive, so renunciation tends to be quite unpopular! But true renunciation is of the heart. It is not about denial; it is about understanding that nothing on the outside will ever truly fill the hole in our heart…
The true meaning of yoga
It is good that “yoga” is now an incredibly common word in the West. But “yoga” is often used to refer to exclusively to yoga postures. In fact, postures are just a very small part of Raja Yoga, which is the complete path to merging with Spirit. After all, the word “yoga” is merely the sanskrit word for “union.”…
The inner battle
I imagine most readers have at least heard of the Bhagavad Gita. It is part of a huge epic—The Mahabharata—in which cousins fight over a kingdom. (Boy, talk about a common theme throughout history!)
The chief warrior for the noble king and his brothers (the Pandavas) is named Arjuna, and he is the greatest archer in the world. His chariot driver is The Lord Krishna. At the last minute, as the first battle is about to commence, Arjuna says to Krishna, “I cannot do this. I cannot kill my own family members. My strength and will are sapped. My bow falls from my hands.”
This world is never what it appears to be
My uncle was a full professor in the Engineering department at Columbia University in NY, and later became Dean. He was obviously a smart fellow, but he also had a natural philosophical bent. He and I would often wind up chatting at large family events. One time at such an event, he sought me out quite actively and pulled me aside. He said, "I just read something really crazy, so of course immediately thought of you!” Thanks for that—I think. A bit of background before diving into why my uncle sought out his crazy nephew…
What does it mean to surrender?
You are walking down the street and fall into a hole. You are not pleased (to put it mildly) and with great effort you climb out. A week later… same street, same hole, and in you go. This time it takes you a little less time to get out. A week later… guess what?… same street, same hole. You sort of notice it, but fall in again and climb out. Later on as you are there again, you notice the hole and avoid it. Clever! My goodness, we can be slow!